I don’t really know how to write this blog/letter… It’s been a month since we met you and had to leave you… and I still don’t know how we even start to say goodbye?
Well I guess we start by saying this isn’t the end… mummy and daddy will be with you again one day. Time will go so fast for you, partying up in heaven, but we will need to wait a little longer. Either way we will be together again one day. I will be able to hold you again and kiss your nose. Daddy will be able to tuck you in and tell you how good you are, and we will both be able to tell you how much we love you.
Even though we didn’t get to meet you in person we are so proud of you. Of your cheeky and defiant nature that we saw at your scans. Of your perfect little body with your beautiful face and perfectly long hands and feet just like your dads. And of your appetite… Turkish Delight milkshakes and pink donuts won’t be the same now that you are gone.
You were so strong and courageous, you held on for so long, right up until daddy told you it was ok, that if you needed to go to heaven without us, you could go. Thank you for being so brave and making that tough decision for us. We aren’t surprised that you chose heaven, I have heard it’s pretty incredible, but I really wish you had have stayed. Earth could have been pretty fun too.
Daddy and I are so sad that you aren’t going to be staying with us. This isn’t what we wanted, but we are so glad that we got to meet you just for a moment. I am heartbroken that I never got to hear you cry or laugh or watch you fall sleep, but I loved every moment I spent with you, holding you and soaking it all in.
Life is really hard now that we have known you and had to say goodbye. Our house feels empty without you and I feel like I have lost part of my purpose. For the 24weeks I carried you, my life was all about you, keeping you safe and growing you to be strong, but now you are gone. We are trusting that Jesus has saved both you and us from something even more devastating, but right now, not having you here really stinks. Even though I only knew you for a short time, part of me feels like I have known you my whole life and losing you has left a pretty big hole in my heart.
My precious and perfect Joshua, be strong and courageous, don’t be afraid, don’t be discouraged. Remember the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. We will try and be strong and courageous without you, we probably won’t be as convincing as you, but we will try.
Please know how much we love you and cherish you. You are the best and most perfect thing your dad and I have ever created, or ever had the privilege of calling ours and we are so proud of you, every inch, every kick and every minute we had with you.
Thank you for making me a mummy,
I love you my sweet one.
10 thoughts on “Dear Joshua”
A beautiful letter to your precious boy. Love you Em xx
Oh Em, my beautiful precious daughter, my heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry you and Dave have had to go through this. Joshua is indeed precious and perfect, just like his mum. My little Grandson, so very glad I got to hold him and kiss his little head. He will be kept safely in my heart forever.
The strength and courage I have witnessed from you and Dave has been amazing! I love you both so much.
My throughs are with you Emma and dave it breaks my heart going through God is willing and able may god be you and dave on your journey xxxxxx
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